Welcome to AudioNervosa Dave! You are most welcome here.
I enjoyed seeing your new Aikido preamp project on AC, and your SimpleSE. We have a mutual friend, Mike Luckow, who you encouraged to build SimpleSE for his Feastrex speakers a few years ago. He spoke very highly of you then. I built those little pine boxes for him.
Your points about separate stages is well taken. Another AN member 'steve' (Steve Sammet of
SAS Audio Labs) used to write here about similar ideas. One being the importance of separate power supplies, and how signal can pass through power supply to contaminate the other channel. He also believed that voltage gain (preamp) should be separate from current gain (power amp) for the reasons you mention, they each do their own job best, and doing both jobs costs too many compromises. Check out his posts going back a few years, some of them are real gems.
For compatibility reasons companies don't do this, because they want to be compatible with other brands' equipment. A 40dB preamp would not be happy with a (typical) 26dB power amp. And a 0dB voltage gain power amp would not be happy with a (typical) 20dB preamp.
I'm looking forward to reading how you like the Aikido/SimpleSE combination, and seeing you post often here in the future.
Rich