I've not been to a Syndrome meeting yet, I'd like to get to one, but the fact that they're held on Friday evenings, across two rivers, makes it a bit difficult for me. I've been to a number of Raves, they're GREAT! I think the listening quality really depends on the size of the gathering. Get 20-30 guys together for a day and the listening can be difficult, IMHO there're just to many people around for it to be conducive to a good listening environment, but it's still great fun to gather with the guys do some casual listening and enjoy one another's company. Now a Rave with 5-10 guys with a bunch of gear is great for listening and socializing. I actually find it better for both, it's less frenetic so you can listen to the gear more intently, and also more intimate so you can get to know the few guys that are around, better. I find conversation easier when the crowd is smaller. Just my 2¢