Shep, if it's true that misery loves company, then let me share a simple story of my dislike of the Grover Switchcraft RCA terminations as well. When I tried removing them from my SB3 awhile back, they just wouldn't budge. Unfortunately, when I applied a bit too much force to do so, it managed to completely twist the RCA in the SB3 breaking the internal contact. I was able to fix it reasonably easily but that was extremely annoying.
I am still using the first gen Sx on my vinyl rig and it works reasonably well there although I've applied a liberal amount of Caig to the terminations first. Everywhere else, however, I have moved to JPS and very happy to have done so.