Buy her a diamond necklace now, while she is still in this weakened state, and you will rule the roost for 1000 years.
I'd be considering:
Wild abandoned Tube Joy:
DeHavilland UltraVerve or Mercury
Cary SLP-05
Melody 101 or 2866
Clean tube warmth:
Manley Steelhead (phono and line)
ARC Ref3
VTL TL5.5
Solid state calm transparency:
Parasound JC2
SMc Audio VRE
DIY opamp
Passive:
Bent Autoformer
Definitely get a remote. And as Dean says, buy once, cry once.