I think you are sitting too close. The tweeters need more distance to balance with the midranges. The usual distance for floorstand hifi speakers is 10 feet. If you want to sit closer, you need to turn down the tweeters. Small wavelengths attenuate more over a distance than longer wavelengths. The speaker is designed for a specific litening distance. Sit closer and HF is too loud.
Also, because of the lateral offset b/t mid & tweet, the toe that you are adding will cause horizontal lobing which will accentuate and attenuate different portions of the presence band which will cause listening fatigue. A 1/2" change in tweeter:midrange distance to you will make a 90degree phase shift at 5kHz (2" wavelength.) That will be very audible in that range. That's why most speakers have the mid and tweet vertically aligned to prevent horizontal
lovbong lobing.
Try to sit 10' away and point them straight at you, see how you like it.
As for your blanket complaint, either you are sitting too close to all the speakers you try, or you are like me and others who prefer softer tweeter than what is offered in modern speaker designs nowadays. Learning to tweak the tweeter is valuable skill. twss
Bryston amps do something to tame HF: it's the sound of too high negative feedback to lower distortion and attract pro audio customers. I hate it, but maybe you are used to the Bryston sound and you miss the feeling of tame tweeter since you got a different amp?