How do you control the volume then ? Not a fan of passive volume controls. To my ears always thin sounding. The only exception are the transformer based TVCs.
You use the volume control in the player on the computer such as Bit Perfect (which right now seems to be the most transparent) or Audirvana Plus (slightly less transparent but can handle more formats and DSD).
These volume controls use dithering which without going into the technical details is better than any kind of electronic volume control.
With regard to the PDX, since the designer Clay hand builds each one, he will adjust the I/V resistor to match your amp so you use the smallest amount of volume reduction which theoretically should be better but I have found makes zero audible difference.
You are correct about pre-amps - who gives a damn if they colour sound providing it sounds better and to you is more realistic. Personally I prefer direct connecting - it has more life, greater dynamics, and a less veiled sound to my ears but that's me. Most people who have checked it out with me prefer it that way as well. It certainly is worth a try to see what you think.
Not a fan of the Lightspeed. I know if the guy who makes them out here in Aus, George, reads this, watch out for the sparks flying, but to me it sounds dull compared to direct connecting, and a number of my acquaintances agree.
Yea my ML2-R's are nearing completion as well. My friend in Canberra picked up the special stands and man are they over the top - each stand weighs over 53kgs but another audiophile buddy who heard them said they make the ML2's sound like they were bolted to a granite mountain. Trouble is weighing so much normal shipping methods cost a bomb.
Thanks
Bill