Well, I got to looking at the Emotiva gear based on the recommendation here... and found they had a $500 pre/pro that very closely matches my McIntosh gear (in looks)... Since HT is only about 90% as critical to me as regular 2-channel listening, I thought it might be worth investigating. They have a nice forum as well and apparently can customize an amp to your needs. (I only need a 3-channel amp, they only show 2, 5 and 7 channel amps on their site.)
I've emailed them and invited them to join... May never hear anything but who knows... would be interesting to hear more from these folks...
-C