I know, I am a cruel bastard! It's just that I know you are a smart guy and can handle using a computer for music processing, and can appreciate the incredible power the computer brings to home audio - especially since you have no objections to digital processing since you're already using Behringer and class D amp.
If your computer has a SPDIF input, either integrated or on the sound card then you can process the incoming SPDIF digital stream in real time to be able to play CDs from a transport just as you are doing now. So it would go CDP>PC>DAC, same as with Behringer. You could play analog sources too if your sound card has good A/D. AudioLense is an order of magnitude more flexible and powerful than Behringer. Of course you can also initiate playback on the PC for high resolution downloads, internet radio, Pandora, etc, but you don't have to do that.
AudioLense uses a mic to measure and it will correct the room to the degree that you specify, remove all group delay, as well as contour the EQ to your taste. If you were to add subwoofers later, they could be crossed to the mains with linear phase, with distance adjusted crossovers of whatever order you wish.
You can try the AudioLense demo for free. And thanks to people complaining to him, it now allows 90 seconds of actual processed playback at a time, so you can hear what it is really capable of doing before you buy it. Previously, it only changed the sound (reduced volume) just to see whether you could get it to work in your system, without actually doing the processing it showed on the screen. But that wasn't a very good sales tool.
It's a different path than traditional audio system, and it's not for everyone. After playing with computer audio all summer last year, I recoiled back to passive crossover and tubes amps now. But I was under soviet style rations last year and had to do everything with no new money. I will try again with proper budget after the current speaker project.
I'd like to learn more about your Fostex driver, can you post a link to it? Is it still made? Thanks