The only thing to be scared of are the bills!
I like a dead-er room than Rich so I'm surprised he likes anechoic..
I think ultra-dead (non-reflective) is awesome to 'visit' but not live with. I thought about it, though. The experimentation and possibilities are seemingly endless.
You have to decide what's important to you and go with it. Your overall goal will guide you to sonic nirvana. Bryan's right, I'm quite pleased. He helped me understand what I was compromising when I made choices along the way which was helpful. It'd be good to know how you rank these:
Cost/Budget
Sound:
Isolation (people, equipment, outside world)
Room orientation
Specific frequency issues (I hate a peak at 100Hz, I'd like to avoid it)
Comfort:
Looks
Lighting
Seating (how many in the room at a time, how many in the sweet spot)
Access (in and out of the room, around the room, etc.)
Other factors:
WAF, Children, pets, etc.