If you've never been, you really should try to go. I've been to the NY shows, and like everything else there, it was crowded, hot, sweaty, and did I mention uncomfortable.
RMAF is so much more relaxed; even the exhibitors appear as if they'll try to accommodate mere mortals, not just reviewers.
This was my second year going, and it really is a pleasure to meet and talk with the person that made your gear. It's also a pleasure to hear so many different approaches to sonic nirvana.
Overall, I found that the lower priced equipment showed extraordinarily well against the stratospherically priced. I understand show conditions affect the outcome, but it cuts both ways.